Sunday 12 October 2014

Raise Your Placards: 3 Nifty Things I Learnt at Model UN

Simply put Model UN has become a phenomenon here in Pakistan. Kids are just dying to raise their placards. Our enthusiasm cannot be sated. The country's political instability isn't even an excuse anymore with the delegates amounting to 1000 at conferences. And now it's not just an activity but a serious extra-curricular.

Now I will not say that I'm a an MUN genius. Regardless, these conferences teach me so much. 

So, what exactly did I learn? Well,

Throughout the article I shall refer to the act of participating in Model UN as MUNing and a person who conducts the act as a MUNer.

1. Just Do It
Prepare a speech. Raise your placard. Breathe in. Breathe out. Deliver.

Now that's usually how it's done. What happens if you don't even raise your placard for the fear of your speech not being up to the mark.

I would even end up analyzing my speech for too long and then I'd:

a) Not even try;
b) Someone would say the exact same thing and get applauded for it.

Don't over think it. The good speeches will come. So what if it wasn't as good Malaysia's or France's. You won't even know if you won't just do it.

2. Caterpillars turn into Butterflies

Some delegates may be 14 and they'll be winning their 3rd consecutive Best Delegate Award. Some 20 year old delegates I met stated that they had gotten progressively better and then became good enough to win the Best Delegate Award through trial and error.`

Don't be so frustrated if you don't think you have the skills at the moment. They just need to develop Everyone grows at their own pace and you will too turn from a caterpillar into a butterfly. 

3. You CAN become a best delegate

You can only be an excellent painter if you paint. While painting to some may seem like a God-gifted forte, that is not the case. Malcolm Gladwell explores in his book " Outliers" is that the most extra-ordinary composers, painters, fiction writers ,etc. all gave their particular forte 10,000 hours of practise and that is what distinguished them from their peers.

So, while some delegates may seem like they were born for MUNing you too can be just as good.

Easier said than done? Yes. Impossible? Not at all. Like I said. You can get progressively better. So just like you have to exercise and eat healthy to lose weight you must also  improve your social skills, public speaking and general knowledge about politics. Practise, practise , practise.

I'll end with a quote:


Sunday 5 October 2014

Savour

I have seen so much improvement in my cousin. He's started Ritalin which is an ADHD medication. The results are encouraging. He's become more focused, his hyperactivity is reduced and yeah he's gotten better at interacting with people.

I can't say he's a neruotypical kid now and that his challenges are ceased but the beauty of having an autistic family member is that you learn to savour the good moments. You do a little happy dance at every milestone reached. And that's what matters.

I think its necessary to appreciate the little things because that makes way for happiness and also a desire to stay involved in whatever you're working with. Our quest for big achievements ,which take longer to accomplish make it easier for us to throw in the towel. And then giving up is harmful too because:
a)  starting over after giving up takes longer; and
b) in the words of Dory from finding Nemo you can't "Just keep swimming".

For the love of swimming, appreciate the little stuff. Savour.